DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Before that, we dated for several years. We have a wonderful relationship in many ways, but we’ve never had the kind of sex life I would prefer. For a long time, we would talk about it and try to find ways to improve things. That communication at least made me feel like this was something we both wanted to improve.
Two years ago, my wife had weight-loss surgery. Since then, our sex life has gone from bad to worse. In that time, I can count the times we’ve been intimate on one hand without using all my fingers. We also no longer talk about how we can improve things.
Prior to the surgery, her struggle with her weight was one of the things that she cited as a (potential) cause for her low sex drive, so I was hoping things would improve. Instead, it seems like she has now lost ALL interest. I tried getting her a product that claimed to boost libido in women, but she never even opened it. It’s as if she has no interest in being interested in sex.
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