The best dating apps for nerds and geeks [November 2024]

We geeks are a passionate bunch. We’ll happily spend hours dissecting the latest superhero movie or Star Wars series, but ask us to decode dating signals, and we’re lost. Our love language might be quoting obscure anime, and our idea of a perfect date might involve tabletop games and cosplay, but finding someone who gets that? That’s a challenge.

For nerdy women, dating means sifting through profiles of guys who think “gamer girl” is a personality (or creeps chasing their Manic Pixie Dream Elf-girl fantasy). For men, it’s the struggle to express your love for all things nerdy without scaring off potential partners or, worse, being labeled “that guy.”

What is the nerdiest dating app?

“For folks looking for a partner that shares their same nerdy interests and passions, the best thing to do is to join a platform with a robust algorithm like eharmony, and include your specific interests in your profile,” Kiana Reeves, Somatic Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, and Chief Education Officer at Foria, tells Mashable. “You can also opt for a platform more frequented by young people, like Bumble, Tinder, and Hinge, and make sure your bio and photos indicate your interests and values — this will help you more easily sift through and attract potential matches who are interested in the same things.”