DEAR ABBY: I met this man online a year and a half ago. We have been together ever since. There is a serious problem with him watching porn. When we met, I knew he was doing it when I was not with him. He knows I’m not happy about it, and he tried for a while to keep it hidden from me. More recently, he would watch it and then want to come get cozy with me.
When I tell him it’s a complete turnoff for me, he gets upset and tells me I need to see a therapist to get over it. I told him he should get help if he expects to have a relationship with any woman. I think he’s obsessed with pornography. Am I overreacting?
I’m beginning to feel like it is more important for him to watch porn than spend time with me. I do love him and very much want to be with him, but I can’t seem to get over this. Help, please. — DEAL-BREAKER IN PENNSYLVANIA
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