DEAR ABBY: I am a 30-year-old bisexual female who has been in a relationship with my 38-year-old boyfriend for a year. I am in love with him and ready to move forward in the relationship.
We have discussed moving in together and possibly marriage. However, I have a sneaking suspicion that he hasn’t been completely truthful about his sexuality. I believe he, too, is bisexual, which I’m OK with, but I don’t know how to approach the conversation without making him defensive or sounding insulting. What do I do? — OWNING IT IN OHIO
DEAR OWNING IT: Because bisexual individuals are attracted to both men and women doesn’t mean they cannot be monogamous. Since you suspect that your boyfriend may be bi, start a conversation by expressing that you are attracted to both sexes. Then ask if this may be something you have in common. His reaction will tell you what you need to know.
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