The new ‘it guy’ is not mysterious. He’s not leaving you on read for 14 hours to “seem busy.” And he certainly isn’t pretending he forgot your date was tonight.
He’s what the kids call chalant.
The made-up dating term — essentially the opposite of nonchalant — is taking off across today’s dating scene, with women increasingly declaring that they want a man who is openly interested, emotionally available and, dare we say, enthusiastic.
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