DEAR ABBY: “Looking Out for Mom in Chicago” (Aug. 16) was concerned that 69-year-old Mom wasn’t getting out and socializing now that she has moved closer to them, and worried they’ll be her only support as she ages. They also said she’s always been shy.
As a nearly 70-year-old introvert, I understand how their mom feels. Moving to a new place with no friends isn’t exactly a bad thing when you’re introverted. I get all the socializing I need when I go to town to shop and talk with familiar clerks.
To force an introvert into situations they aren’t familiar with is stressful on the person. It’s a terribly uncomfortable situation. People need to realize that there are folks out there who really are fine in their own company. — CATHY IN WISCONSIN
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